A thing or two that you might need to Hear
As human beings, we have certain things in common.
And one of those being the surprise of Life!
You know, what I am talking about.
There is no need for me to tell you how life is.
So, that is the reason I will talk about a few things, that we all need to hear.
Just to make our life a little better.
Here we go……….
Become a Good friend of yours
Life is hard and it always will be.
So, what’s the point of making it harder.
I don’t know if this is you, but a ton of us get in our own way.
We do, it regularly.
Let me tell you what happens.
If your internal dialogue is like, “ I am nothing doing good, I am not good enough”, etc and all other negative things.
Then slowly it tends to change your behavior too.
You start showing the sense of having a negative image to the outer world.
And if this is your default mindset, then you start seeking outer approvals.
Which is in itself a losing game.
You can’t get everyone to appreciate you when you can’t even appreciate yourself.
You start to feel that the world owes you all approval when no one is.
No one owes you anything.
This is a vicious circle, and I know what kind of horrible impact it will have on you.
My friend, try to be a little good with yourself.
Become your best friend.
The friend whom you always have been looking for.
Believe me, it is freedom.
You will get back the ability to do you! To be you.
And all these will lead to you being good to others too.
You will be GOOD.
Take Responsibility
I don’t know whether you have heard about this Former Navy Seal and a very good person, Jocko Willink.
I bet some of you must have.
Let me be clear.
This thought is actually inspired by Jocko.
He says to take “Extreme Ownership”
I just changed it to make it a little less hard on myself, and to make it a bit more applicable.
“Take Extreme Ownership”
Life is a game of the unknown. We never know what curveball Life will throw at us and I can say that almost 80% of the time, we really don’t have any control over a lot of things in life.
These make up our life circumstances.
We just can’t control that.
Now, this is where this thought helps.
We can’t control the action but he has control over our reaction.
I suggest that you should realize that it is all our Responsibility.
Now you might say that how can you be responsible for all the things that happen to you in this world?
There I would like you to think again.
Who is responsible for everything in your Life?
Who is?
If not you.
Yes, you can’t control the world but if you don’t take responsibility for everything in your life then who else will.
Who will come to the rescue?
There is no one except you.
It is your life.
So, keep your head straight and think.
It is time you take full responsibility for your life.
Let’s take charge of things that we can.
Gather confidence and take your decision. You are your hero!
Good Luck.
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